Verbal (Valued) Functions

Verbal (Valued) Functions (Program, Creative, Suggestive, and Activating) are used to discuss ideals, formulate beliefs, and express core values.

Verbal functions are aspects where a person experiences few internal social restrictions. They feel “It’s allowed here,” so they speak freely, make mistakes, joke, express unpopular opinions, or even violate general norms without shame or awkwardness.

This produces a characteristic tone: speech is more open, lively, and casual. The person skips constant self-monitoring (“Is this appropriate? What will others think?”) and simply says what they think. They can publicly criticize societal norms or joke about sensitive topics and see it as completely natural.

Key marker: In verbal functions, behavior remains consistent regardless of audience—whether with close friends or unfamiliar people.

Practical takeaway

What looks like “closed off” behavior (avoiding personal topics, giving careful responses) or “excessive directness” (bluntness that shocks others) is often not about personality, upbringing, or even current trust levels.

A "too direct" person is not necessarily tactless. It's just that whatever they are saying at the moment falls into their verbal zone—a zone where they feel no social restrictions. On other aspects, they might be far more delicate and mindful than you would expect.

Source: S. Ionkin