Elena V. (LII) - Decision Making

If I don’t know something, then I don't it; but if I do know something—and especially if I see, for example, that my spouse is incompetent in a certain area—I will naturally exert every effort to ensure the decision is made based on my understanding and vision.

When I need a household appliance, I gather information until a complete picture forms in my mind:

• What the volume of the refrigerator and freezer should be;

• The layout and proportions;

• Power/Wattage;

• Conveniently placed shelves—they must be glass, not wire racks;

• The quality of the plastic inside: how well it cleans and how quickly it might discolor. If I see, for instance, that the plastic is porous or yellowish, I anticipate how it will perform in use and think: "This won't work for me."

• The color of the unit itself: white is the wrong choice; it will yellow and show dirt.

In reality, it is a very complex set of criteria. It is very difficult for a person standing next to me, who doesn’t visualize all of this, to "get" it—especially if their own logic is weak.

If I am certain of the pros and cons of a chosen refrigerator and can provide a reasoned answer to any question, I will, of course, stand my ground. I will try to explain it rationally and clearly, approaching the subject ten different ways if I have to. If the issue is significant or a matter of principle, I will not back down.