Relaxation Function Block of IP Types (Te-Fe)
In this block, the types want their actions and emotions to be pleasant and comfortable. Work should be easygoing, unhurried, and gratifying. They need to be protected from overexertion and excessive activity.
They value offering services and assistance to one another to ensure no one becomes overburdened (no overstrain). They need to shield each other from unnecessary hustle or high-energy demands.
These types strive to regulate the emotional environment by making sure:
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There are no significant emotional swings or high levels of emotional tension.
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Everyone should practice light empathy and exchange smiles.
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There's no need to critically dissect each other's work, decisions, or feelings.
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Casual conversation about diverse topics or simple, relaxing handiwork provides good stress relief.
To interact comfortably with these types, one should adopt a gentle and tactful manner.
They quickly become tense and irritable if:
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Discussions regarding Te or Fe are conducted in a dry, overly formal style.
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Delicacy is absent from the interaction.
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Others are demanding or insistent.
When demonstrating their work, they need the other person to respond with emotional appreciation. For instance, being told: "Wow, that's great! You did an amazing job!" Conversely, when they show an emotional response, it's important to reciprocate by demonstrating a readiness to help and support.
Naturally, there are nuances depending on which aspect is stronger—Te or Fe:
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Strong Fe: "I'm ready to treat you well, but in return, I expect your help."
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Strong Te: "I'm ready to help you in return for your good attitude."
Sources: S. Ionkin, E. Shepetko